I’m no mathematician, but if monogamy is about finding the right algebraic equation to create balance and harmony on both sides of the equals sign, then polyamory is calculus. And in the same way that I never actually learned calculus in school, I did not join the polyamory platoon with an instruction manual; hardly anybody…
Recently, I wrote about the Walterdale Playhouse’s decision to cancel Othello after receiving criticism, and possibly threats, because their director cast a white woman in the title role. Since then, I’ve seen a different production on a different continent, and it has reinforced my convictions that (a) non-traditional casting should not be off-limits, even when…
This article originally appeared in The Good Men Project on September 22, 2016. Just a warning (to paraphrase Ira Glass): this post acknowledges the existence of my sex life. I don’t talk about my polyamory much, because when I hear others talk about theirs, it comes across as bragging. On one podcast, I listened to…
